a writer for fine artists

I am a super realistic painter and fashion designer. I was in very good galleries a long time ago but got out of the art world to be in fashion. Then 6 1/2 years ago my 22 year old daughter died and I stopped everything, Producer Jerry Weintraub (Oceans 11,12,13), who was a friend and collector of my work, was persistent until I painted again. He threw an amazing tribute party for me as a result of painting again. Jerry was going to help get into a new gallery but he suddenly passed away last summer. I have lists of galleries with emails, and I sent emails to a lot of New York galleries, but nothing materialized except a gallery in Southampton and then he got sick and closed his gallery. I then put my work in a gallery in East Hampton. But I need to be in a good gallery in New York, LA , Miami ......all or any one of them. And I want a gallery that shows in the good art fairs. Art galleries want what they cant have or what is hard to get. The email has to be written in a way that I am evaluating which gallery I want not the other way around. But I cant come out and do that because they dont know me and that would turn them off. So, how do you get someone to do something that you want??? My website is [login to view URL] so you can see my art .